We have all heard the phrase: "The Lion, the Witch, and the Audacity of this Bitch."
This article is the first part of the "Baddie Series," where we learn how the evolution of slang and language changes the meaning of negative words into positive ones.
Usually, when someone accuses you of having "audacity," it is meant as an insult. It implies you have stepped out of line. It implies you asked for too much. It implies you forgot your place.
But in the world of female empowerment, the world view appears differently.
At Boom Positive, we know audacity is a survival skill and chosen intention, instead of a character flaw. Here is the true definition of audacity and why it is the first step to building your dream life.
What Does Audacity Mean? (The Dictionary vs. The Vibe)
If you look up Audacity in a standard dictionary, you will find two very different definitions:
- The willingness to take bold risks.
- Rude or disrespectful behavior; impudence.
Society loves to focus on definition #2. They tell us to be humble, to be quiet, and to be grateful for whatever scraps we are given. But we are focusing on definition #1. We are reclaiming the word.
The "Mindset Definition" of Audacity
Audacity is the courage to take up space and fully claim exactly what you deserve.
It is the refusal to shrink. It is the ability to walk into a room and assume you belong there, not because someone invited you, but because you decided to show up.
Why "The Audacity" is a Baddie Essential
To live a "positive life" doesn't mean you have to be passive. Positive Psychology tells us that agency—the feeling that you are in control of your life—is one of the biggest factors in happiness.
You cannot have agency without audacity. Here is why you need to add this word to your daily vocabulary:
- Audacity Sets Boundaries: It takes nerve to say "No" without offering an excuse.
- Audacity Closes the Wage Gap: It takes boldness to ask for a raise when you know you are doing the work.
- Audacity Kills Imposter Syndrome: While you are worrying if you are "qualified," someone with half your talent and double your audacity is already applying for the job.
How to Have More Audacity (3 Steps)
Want to embody this word? You don't have to change your personality; you just have to change your mindset.
1. Stop Apologizing for Existing: If you bump into someone, say sorry. Stop saying sorry for asking a question, for sending an email, or for taking up space on the subway.
2. Assume the Answer is Yes: The opposite of audacity is hesitation. Stop waiting for permission. Apply for the opportunity. Send the DM. Launch the project. Assume the universe is conspiring in your favor.
3. Romanticize Your Standards: Having high standards isn't being "difficult"; it's being audacious. Decide what is non-negotiable in your life and refuse to lower the bar.
Synonyms for Audacity (Build Your Lexicon)
If you love the vibe of audacity, try adding these related positive nouns to your vocabulary:
- Moxie: Force of character, determination, or nerve.
- Chutzpah: Shameless boldness (in the best way).
- Gumption: Shrewd or spirited initiative.
- Nerve: Steadiness, courage, and a sense of purpose.
The Takeaway
The next time someone asks, "Where do you get the audacity?" just smile and tell them: I gave it to myself.
Pin this definition to your "Motivation" board and remind yourself daily to take up space.
